Day 2: ‘You need to be logical’!

I have always been carefree, true, but most of my life’s decisions were based on other’s opinions, thoughts, impressions of me and most importantly, their fears of failure and limitations.

I come from a family of hard workers, No Cap! Our mantra: 'Hard work never killed anyone'..err..*pause*.

To be fair, we (my fam) tend to look super young and live long too but, ‘erm, esquiss me ma’am/sir’..

'it dinnor be becos of hard work'..

*clears throat*.

I know there is ‘hard work’ and there’s ‘working hard on a goal/dream. So, question!

What happens when a child has a goal that’s not theirs or know their dreams will be shut down if mentioned? 

You get burnt out adults (some we term delusional/silly/suffering from spiritual attacks because he/she was doing so well at their job then 'village people made them quit’ e.t.c.).

Dear parents,

the love a child has for you will never change but it’s time to understand that projecting your fears on to a child you brought into this world affects that child even after you have left the world; his/her thoughts, behaviour, fears, relationships (intimate/casual), work, and possibly, another generation of minds(their kids)..Guidance is not control.

Love,

A child.

Sorry, I got too serious there..anyhoo..

This is me planning new ‘delusional goals and dreams’ and deciding to try and fail rather than shrink and regret never trying.

P.S.

The picture attached is old but 

‘I haff no go to beach since so..’ 

please manage it like that.

감사합니다 여러분! (Thank you everyone)!

Yours ‘delusionally',

DatDigitalNomad